Baby Talk

Conversation in the Car

2012-01-10T08:39:00.001-06:00

On the way to daycare, Braxton and I had the following conversation:

Braxton: Mom, who will I find to get married to?
Me: Well, you have to find a girl that you like and then ask her to marry you. Do you think you will find someone like that?
Braxton (after brief pause): I did. Her name is Nora. She's 5.

And so it begins...

Perkins Baby #3!

2012-01-08T11:08:00.000-06:00

There he (or she) is :). This picture is actually pretty old - taken November 21st, 2011. I was about 9 weeks at that point. Now, I am at week 16. I think Jon and I are still trying to wrap our heads around the idea of a third baby in the house. About once a week, especially when the boys are having one of their "moments", Jon looks over at me and says "Can you believe we are going to have another one?". Makes me laugh every time :).

I am due June 22nd. Right in the middle of the boys' birthdays. I was originally due June 11th, based on that little calendar they use. But the doctor and I talked a bit about my two previous experiences and decided to have an early ultrasound just in case. And, well, what do you know? My theory was right. Unfortunately, I unintentionally added 11 days to my pregnancy. And with the last little guy coming in over 9 pounds, yeah, I'm a bit nervous I'm going to give birth to a 10+ 'er. Here goes nothing...

I am more than certainly showing, and so I am starting to get lots of comments from people. And the big question everyone wants to know - "Are you hoping for a girl?". My answer, "No, not really, I guess." Jon and I have both decided that this will be the last baby. And I always pictured myself one of those moms with all the frilly dresses and ponytails. But I can honestly say, no matter what the sex, knowing it is our last baby, I will be very happy, and a little sad, either way. I absolutely adore my little boys and can easily picture the little threesome running around together. But I also know that I will always miss a little bit of that girly-girly thing. On the other hand, I can also easily picture those mom and daughter shopping trips and two brothers playing protector of their little sister.

The boys have started to talk about the baby. Braxton is very concerned about "Where will the baby sleep? Where will the baby sit at the table? Where will the baby ride in the car?" And Kyler has proven to be a baby-lover beyond a doubt. He has a few baby cousins that he oogles over every chance he gets. He loves to pet them, kiss them, talk to them in this funny little baby voice. So, I am certain he, too, will make a great big brother. He told me the other day, "Mom, I want ALL the babies". Well, he's going to have to settle for just one. :)

I think we've decided to find out what it is when we have our ultrasound next month. So, that will give both Jon and I a little time to wrap our heads around the new little addition, no matter what it may be. Regardless, all I can say is that we are truly blessed!

Merry Christmas to all... And to all a good night!

2011-12-29T21:57:00.000-06:00

Man, do I love Christmas! As you can see, it was a crazy night at Grandma Hunt's on Christmas Eve (as it always is!!). And Christmas morning, a few shots of the boys celebrating our little family's Christmas. Needless to say, it was a weekend CHALK FULL of fun. Perkins Christmas Saturday morning (complete with a full course breakfast, thanks to my amazing in laws and awesome sister-in-law-to-be Mollie), Christmas Eve Mass, a visit from Santa at Granny's Saturday night, a mini- Perkins gathering Sunday morning, and then an amazing prime rib dinner back at Granny's that afternoon.

I can never say enough how thankful I am for the wonderful family that I have and the wonderful family I married into. I am so blessed to have my amazing boys (including that big, goofy one) in my life. And to have all the other family that comes along with it is icing on the cake. My boys so much enjoy their time with their uncles and aunts, their grandparents and their Granny, not to mention everyone else. I know right now, they love each and every person, but they don't truly understand how amazing it is to be a part of such a great group of people. Some day they will. And someday they will be so thankful. I am certain.

Decorating the Christmas Tree

2011-12-07T21:31:00.001-06:00

As the Perkins household gets ready for the wonderful Christmas season, we took some time this week to decorate the Christmas tree. We went out and bought our tree last Friday, but Monday was the first chance we had to actually decorate. And boy, does it look nice! A little heavy with ornaments on the bottom half, but nice none the less.

When I was growing up, one of the holiday traditions that sticks out most to me was going out to buy our Christmas tree. I realize that many families actually buy just ONE, beautifully shaped (and often lit) tree and pack it up every year. And now, as one of the responsible members of the household, I can see some serious benefit to that. But, at this point, it is a tradition I am not ready to give that real tree up. Yeah, I know they don't smell amazing for long, and yeah, I know they make a great big mess. But, it's TRADITION! To choose the "perfect" tree every year is an art. And one that I am passing on to my children. Hopefully, some day, when my kids have kids, if they are still selling Christmas trees then, they will pass this tradition on to them. And they will remember as fondly as I do going out with my mom and dad to seek out that "perfect" tree. I think I've even converted my "fake tree" husband :).

Out-takes

2011-11-20T21:14:00.001-06:00

I bought a new photo backdrop a few weeks ago and had a couple of chances to use it this weekend. So, as always, I had to put my two guinea pigs out there to test it out. So, please forgive the lighting, color, etc. Like I said, these were PRACTICE shots, and they are unedited. I wanted to put them on here for everyone, though, because I always think it is so fun to see what the boys do when I tell them "just sit there so I can take your picture" :). (Oh, and PS - they are getting hair cuts this week. Holy smokes that's a lot of hair!)

The Epic Haircut

2011-10-18T21:55:00.001-05:00

I can't believe that I haven't posted these earlier. But here they are. Pictures of the tragic day that my Kyler Pauly lost his beautiful red curls. So, I promised Jon that after Kyler turned two, I would cut his hair. Well, he turned two. And, I just COULD NOT do it. So, I promised Jon that after his two year pictures, we would cut it. So, that day came and went... Finally, the last day of August (his birthday is July 21st), we sat down and did it.

I have to say, it was an emotional experience. Well, at least for me. I have no idea why, but I had grown extremely attached to these little red ringlets. I loved the way they bounced around, how they hung over his collar, how they got all curled up after a bath... Though I knew we couldn't let his hair grow forever, I have to admit I did shed a few tears. Jon, on the other hand, was getting tired of little old ladies asking how old his little girl was :). He had had enough!

So, here you have it. The before and after. I do have to admit, looking at it now, though he is no longer my little "baby", he does make a pretty handsome big-boy!

A few pictures

2011-10-02T21:40:00.001-05:00

A few more pics from cousin Whitney's wedding. I will write later :).

Wedding Crashers

2011-09-18T21:39:00.000-05:00

What a great time we had at my cousin Whitney's wedding last weekend! The boys were so great! Braxton and Cousin Kaleb were ring bearers and looked SOOOO stunning in their little tuxes. Braxton was pretty apprehensive about the whole thing the night of rehearsal. But come day of, knowing that he had to "show Kaleb what to do", he figured he had it in the bag. He was ready to go! But, at the last minute, got a little stage fright. So, Dad, the savior man, pulled out the McQueen shades and saved the day. See, Braxton was in his Uncle Dave and Aunt Sarah's wedding last year. And he was feeling pretty nervous. So, Dad told him that if he wore his sunglasses, no one would be able to see him. So, he would have nothing to worry about. Apparently, he needed a little hide-power again this year :). I think the plan almost failed when everyone started ooh-ing and aww-ing over the two handsome gentlemen. From what I hear, he had a bit of a lip-quiver right at the end of the isle. But, he pulled through and stood his ground through the entire ceremony!

And as I was busy taking pictures for the ceremony, there I was at the end of the isle trying to capture the moment for the bride and groom, when all of a sudden, I see a little red-head crawling out of a pew. He turns his head to me, and quite loudly announces "Mommy!" Aw, man. Where was grandma on that one? She was supposed to be watching that little rambunctious bundle while we were off tending to our wedding duties! Oh, well. No harm done :).

These are just a few snap shots taken during the reception. Poor Braxton fell asleep on the way there. We drug him in and he sat in his chair for a few minutes doing only what I can assume to be sleeping with his eyes open. So, finally I asked him to lay his head down on the table. He was like this for over a 1/2 hour, when I forced him awake again. Poor kid! He did catch his second wind and the boys and I danced up a storm! A very fun weekend had by all :).

Southam Weekend Away!

2011-08-28T20:49:00.004-05:00

This past weekend, the Southam family took a mini-vacation to Aberdeen SD. Our little Perkins family went down Friday night to hit the races. Saturday, we ventured to Willey Park, including Storybook Land and Land of Oz. After a heft afternoon nap, we had a great dinner and a dip in the pool. Today, we spent time in a GREAT playground (again, back at Willey Park :), and then a few trips around the go-cart track.

Everyone had a GREAT time and the boys were AMAZINGLY well behaved! They had some great time with cousins Kaleb and Bree. It is so fun to watch Kyler with baby Bree. He is absolutely infatuated with her! Just another reminder to be so thankful of the wonderful family that we have.

And now on to another week at the grindstone... :)

Weird...

2011-08-28T20:46:00.003-05:00

Weird... This is how I found Braxton sleeping one night a few weeks ago. Kids are weird...

In The Potty!

2011-08-08T21:22:00.005-05:00

Kyler peed in the potty for the first time last night! Yeah! He is officially 2 years old, and 18 days. Let it be forever marked in the record books... So, yes, I do realize that this may have been a one time event and he may not go again for another two, or heck, six months, but this is exciting none-the-less. I was downstairs doing laundry when I start hearing this LOUD clapping, jumping, shouting (this was Jon and Braxton :). Jon was getting him ready for bed. Took off his diaper, and Kyler apparently told Jon that he had to "go potty". So, he sat down on the little musical potty chair that we have been keeping in the living room for just that purpose, and he WENT! Jon said Kyler looked as surprised as could be and it took him a few seconds to realize what he had actually done. But then, he was jumping around with everyone else, clapping, giving hi-fives, and a few "woo-hoos". After the celebration died down a bit, he had to praise the man that did all the real work - he looked down, pointed his finger down, looked at me with a big grin, and said... "wiener". Yep, way to go big guy ;).

Happy birthday to my two best guys :)

2011-07-26T21:20:00.006-05:00

The boys and the Grandmas at the birthday party a few weeks ago. This was BEFORE the tornado warnings came and everyone had to bail on the party :). Yep, we had another joint party for the boys this year at the camp ground. Had a great time battling the HEAT (no idea what the temp was, but it was HOT!) playing near the water, slip and slide, sprinkler, with all so many wonderful friends and family. Then had a GREAT meal of sloppy joes, salads, chips, and CUPCAKES!! Oh, yeah, then we were told a tornado was headed RIGHT FOR US. So, just to show how great our friends and family are - they all grabbed an armful (or several) of gifts, food, decorations to throw in the camper. Then we all ran for the hills. :)

The next picture is the boys opening their gifts at home, later that night (AFTER the tornado warning :).

And finally, Kyler trying to blow out his candles on his actual birthday. Happy birthday to my big boys!

Tree-Pee-Ers

2011-07-21T21:54:00.002-05:00

Yes, two different locations. Yes, same activity...

And Kyler Pauly...

2011-06-30T22:11:00.005-05:00

In a few weeks, Kyler will turn the big "2". Hard to believe that this is the case! WoW! What a crazy few months he has had. He (FINALLY) started talking. I really truly thought that this would never come! I am not sure if it is a case of second-child syndrome, or if it was because of all of the ear/illness trouble he has been having, but the poor kid just wouldn't say a word for ever! I am going with the second explanation for now...

As most know, Kyler has dealt with ear infection after ear infection after ear infection. He also dealt with a year of snotty noses and various eye infections. I was starting to think that the kid would never be "well". He had the tubes. He has been on EVERY antibiotic out there. We have done EVERYTHING. Finally, he was sent to a specialist. Who diagnosed him with "chronic sinusitis" (never-ending snot face, in layman's terms). The only remedy? Take him out of daycare. Hence, the in-home sitter for the summer. And, amazingly, to my dismay, the doctor was... right. The whole thing went away about two weeks ago, and he's been snot free since (the longest ever). So, hopefully when he returns to daycare in the fall, he will be well enough to fight off all the bugs. (Hopefully.)

So, like I said, Kyler has started to talk. He has gotten so far as two to three words at a time. This week, he told his dad on the phone "Me, Bracky, Anra (Andrea), poo (pool) Daddy" when talking to his dad on the phone about his day. So, I officially count that as 5 words. Ok, it's a stretch, but still, it's something! His favorite word is probably "Bracky". Or at least I must assume, as he says it ALL the time :). He knows all of the names of those around him. He named a few colors the other day (kinda thinking that was luck, though). He knows a lot of the animals and their sounds. "Please" is a popular word, too. Oh, and "Me do." "Me do" this, "me do" that, "me do" all of these things that I can't do and end up getting in a pickle over. But still, "me do".

Kyler's personality and temperament have really started to shine though, too. He went from our docile, perfectly quiet little baby, to, how do I say - hell on wheels! He is not even close to the same kid as he was when he was 6 moths old. Like I said, he is SO independent. And such a trouble maker (I say this in only the kindest way)! When the two little guys get into trouble and get a lecture from mom or dad, Braxton collapses in tears, Kyler laughs at us. LAUGHS! As you can imagine, this is frustrating as heck when you are the one with the finger pointed. But, when you are watching, it is simply hilarious! At least for me. Not sure how many times I have had to hide my face when Kyler points his finger back at his dad, smiles, and says "NO!" right back.

And, oh, those little red curls! How I love them! Neither of my kids have spent a lot of time the first few years of their lives growing hair. Braxton didn't get a haircut until after his second birthday. And I decided to stick with tradition for Kyler. So, now Kyler has these beautiful RED ringlets all over his head. I absolutely LOVE them. Jon, on the other hand, can not wait until they are gone. He threatens to cut them about every other day. I, unfortunately, have grown quite fond of them. That first haircut is going to be a bit of a tear-jerker for me, I fear.

Again, there is not much more that I can say other than "what an amazing kid". And the idea that love is the only thing that grows when divided is absolutely true to the 100th degree. I never thought I could love someone as much as my Bracky. And to find that I can love another child just as much, and my love for the two of them just continues to grow and grow. And our family as a whole, just grow and grow... Ok, I'm getting a little sappy, I know. But, well, it's true! :)

Mr. Braxton James

2011-06-30T21:41:00.003-05:00

So, I have been wanting to do this for a couple of months, but have not taken the time. So, now I am. I have sat down. I am committed. I want to update everyone on my two wonderful little men. And I will stay up late if I have to! :)

So, I will start with my big kid. Mr. Bracky James Perkins. As most of you know, Braxton turned 4 last month. And he just continues to grow up every day. He is smart as a whip, which is great to see (not like I was toooo worried :). He is at that age now where he analyzes and considers everything. He is ALWAYS asking questions about why and how and when. I don't mind, really. Though there are days... :). He finished out a successful first year of preschool. We received a book upon completion with his first day work, and then his end of year work. It was amazing to see the progress! To go from his name being simply a scribble, to a legible signature. And to see his coloring go from all over the place to (somewhat) in the lines. He LOVES to learn, and will sit with you for ever "working".

He also has developed this crazy imagination. He loves to "pretend". He has an entire basket full of "costumes", from cowboy, to Buzz Lightyear, to fireman, to superhero. Superheros is his newest thing. Unfortunately, he hasn't had a lot of exposure to "real" superheros (Batman, Superman, etc). So, instead, he is "Superhero Guy!" or something of the sort. The other day, I was playing superheros with him, and I was appointed "Super-Cleaner Lady". REALLY? That's as good as it gets? Man!

And we play all other versions of "pretend". He obviously spends a lot of time thinking about roles in his life, as we play a lot of "house", a lot of "I'll be the dad" or "I'm grandpa Glen".

He remains my sensitive soul. He is still quick to cry, quick to over-react, quick to feel bad about something. He has started to put words to his emotions, which I think is helping him out. He is now sad, happy, angry, frustrated, upset, and "lovie". The last one is my favorite! He is my snuggler, hugger, kisser, "mom, can I snuggle with you?" guy.

It is great to see him with his little brother. He has definitely taken on that big-brother role. He gets angry with Kyler when he takes his toys, hits him, etc. But unless Kyler REALLY pushes his buttons (or catches him in a bad mood), he is quite forgiving (more forgiving that I would be!). And spends much of his time with "Come here Kyler. It's OK, Kyler. Where's Kyler?".

This summer, both of the boys get to stay home with our sitter Andrea. This fall, Braxton will go back to his second (and final) year of preschool. It is amazing to me how time has gone! And how one little guy can win your heart over and over again!

The Maiden Camping Venture

2011-05-31T21:57:00.005-05:00

It is official! Though the weather may still be giving us a hard time, camping season in the Perkins household has officially BEGUN! After a week of Jon and I packing, cleaning, organizing, and fixing the camper, we headed out on Memorial Day weekend on our maiden voyage. We trucked down to the big city of Monango, ND, where our good friends Corey and Missy Genter have a small hobby farm with other members of Corey's family. So, no, we weren't on the lake or in some campground somewhere, but it was camping none-the-less. And the trip was a SUCCESS! (I always get a little nervous on that first go-round.)

The boys played (and played and played) with their friend Carter and all of his cousins. And when I say play, PLAY is an understatement. There were SOOOO many things to do (despite the cruddy weather). They played in the sandbox, flew kites, had a bonfire, and ran. RAN! And then they slept. Wow, did they sleep! All night long, and for a few hours on Sunday afternoon. When we got home Monday, Braxton then slept for 4 hours that afternoon and Kyler took two naps. Jon even refused to move off of the couch for more than a few brief periods of time. I guess a little bit of fresh air will do a boy good :).

When we left, Braxton said that he wants to "camp there every day!". He couldn't get enough. When we contemplated coming home Sunday because of the cruddy weather, he begged to stay. Fortunately, it didn't rain, but was just kind of "yucky", which didn't seem to faze them a bit. It was great to see the kids out, just being kids. Running and playing and having a great time. It made me really remember what summer is all about. It felt great to get all of those winter "sleepers" out! And it's got us ready to go for more! Camper in tow :).

4. Four? 4!

2011-05-24T19:33:00.002-05:00

Tomorrow is Braxton's birthday. AND his preschool graduation. He does have another year, but graduation none the less :). I promise to write more, but have a minute to post a few pics. So, enjoy!

Easter!

2011-05-15T21:46:00.003-05:00

This year, we again had the chance to travel to Minot to celebrate Easter! We were lucky to find what I think were the last two hotel rooms in Minot, thanks to Uncle Rhett pulling a few strings. So, the boys had a chance to swim, swim, swim. Actually, it was more like splash, splash, splash, as neither of them actually submerged themselves in the water, but what the heck, right!? And they had some quality time with cousin Kaleb while little baby Bree watched on. The next day, we rang in the holiday at Aunt Sally's church, and then on to her house for a GREAT meal! All of my extended family was there, the food was amazing, and the company was even better. It is not too often that we are able to travel up north, so we try to take in every minute. It must have been a good time because the boys and I slept almost all f the way home!

Where have we been?

2011-05-15T21:39:00.002-05:00

So, I feel that it has been a long time since I have written anything meaningful in my little "ode to my boys" blog that I have going here. For anyone that is a "do-er" like me, there is a lot of guilt that goes along with not following through on your commitments. So, I commit to this little blog, then I fall out of practice, then I feel guilty, which gets me to procrastinating on writing anything new, which leads me to feeling guilty... As you can see, this is quite the cycle I find myself in! So, now here I sit trying to come up with my big "come-back" after submitting some previous minimal attempts at keeping up with my twice-a-month standard. So, as you can see, I just start typing and typing and typing without coming up with much... So I think I am going to now try to put something meaningful together that people are going to actually want to read... Cross your fingers!

2011-04-10T17:15:00.002-05:00

Checking In

2011-04-06T22:01:00.004-05:00

So, I've been a bit neglectful of my blog lately. And I also realized that I have been a bit neglectful in my snapshots as well. We've been so busy living live that we've been forgetting to capture it! So, here are some pictures of us lounging around home.

Please take a minute to appreciate Braxton's boots. Jon picked the boys up from daycare on Friday because I had to work late. When they still weren't home when I arrived, I called to check in. They were at the "boot store". Dad bought new work boots and Braxton got new, well, kicks. And, as with everything else, poor Kyler has taken over the old pair. They are both pretty proud of their cowboy addition!

Urban Cowboy

2011-03-21T20:47:00.004-05:00

So, for everyone that reads my blog often, you know that I have two little boys that are quite in love with playing "pretend". We have obtained ourselves quite the collection of costumes, or "suits", as Braxton would call them. Well, tonight was one of the funniest sessions of "pretend" I have seen in some time! Grandma Carol and Papa Glen came over for supper. Of course, the boys got Papa roped into a game right away! And, as you probably know, "Cowboys" is one of favorites at our house. So, tonight, the three cowboys (Braxton, Kyler, and Papa), were busy! (Strangely, Braxton spent a good portion of "Cowboy" dressed as Buzz Lightyear, but I didn't ask questions...) They started out wrangling bad guys. They had quite a load of them in jail (or, in the shower, depending on how you look at it). Papa had the gun, Kyler had the rope, and Braxton flew around finding them and pointing the way. After all the bad guys were wrangled up, they decided to set up camp and cook some supper. Catching bad guys really works up an appetite! So, Papa is stomping around the house asking Braxton to find him a moose, an elk, by the end I think he would have taken just about anything on four legs. But Braxton was just not able to "spot" anything to cook up for supper. Papa tried one more time with a "Boy, I sure hope we find something to hunt. I'm really getting hungry!". Braxton's reply - "But Papa, I have our supper here in the cart!", as he comes strolling up with his grocery cart full of boxes of food! Apparently, they were hunting around the corner from the Seven-11 :). I think that Braxton has a bit to learn about "roughing it". They ended up settling for a box of Cheerios and noodles. I guess even the roughest and toughest of cowboys should know where to buy the nearest box of Cheerios...

Baby Bree

2011-02-27T20:49:00.003-06:00

My most beautiful niece, Bree Jordyn. Born Saturday, February 26th. 7 pounds, 15 ounces, about 21 inches long. Sorry the pics are so small - came from my phone. But you can still tell how perfect she is!!

Hangin' With Dad

2011-02-27T20:41:00.003-06:00

One of the many "Dad" moments that the kids have been enjoying. They really love their time with Dad. He is definitely the "favorite" parent in the house right now. Pretty much anything that needs to be done, should, if at all possible, be done by Dad. Me: Kyler, let me change your diaper. Kyler: Dada. Me: Braxton, are you ready for me to tuck you in? Braxton: I want Dad to take me to bed. Along with that, all of our grocery shopping can now be put in two categories: For Mom or for "The Boys". Braxton tells me that "The Boys" consist of he, his brother, and his Dad. And that any other purchase is considered "Mom's". Too bad they get all the good stuff... :) This has been going on for at least a month now, with no end in sight. Needless to say, Jon is eating it up. Though I do think he gets a little tired out here and there. And I have to admit, it is kind of nice. But after a while, well, let's just say I would be willing to change a poopy diaper or two.

Unedited

2011-01-30T21:36:00.003-06:00

I figured I better get one more post in to keep up on my twice a month quota! These are UNEDITED photos of my boys. Everyone that reads this blog is either close friends or family, so no need to be perfect, right?

Kyler's photos are out-takes from his 18 month shoot. He was giving me quite a show that night. And Braxton's are his "guinea pig" shots. Every time before I have someone coming over for photos, Braxton is my "guinea pig". He does such a GREAT job for me. As you can tell, he's become pretty comfortable in front of the camera. He always tries to spice it up a bit for his mama :).

PS We would like to thank Grandma Carol for Kyler's tattoos and Papa Glen for the Braxton's new found passion for body-painting. Ugh.

Enjoy!

Oldies But Goodies

2011-01-18T21:10:00.006-06:00

Since I realized today that I haven't taken any photos of my kids since Christmas, and everyone has seen most of them, I thought I would dig through the archives to a warm, windy day in May 2007. The day we had Mr. Braxton James. Wow, it is crazy how that beautiful little 8 pound squirt has turned into the

beautiful almost-4-year old boy that he is today. Oh, life is grand!

Merry Christmas 2010!

2010-12-26T21:50:00.001-06:00

Above are some Christmas photos for you to enjoy. What a year! Every year, we manage to spread Christmas into a several-week long celebration. This year was no different. We started last Friday and just finished this afternoon. And as you can see, much to their teen-aged future selves dismay, the hit of the year were the Buzz LightYear and Woody the Cowboy life-size costumes. Yes, they were a hit. I couldn't help but remind uncle Matt (they were from him and Mollie) that some day, these guys are going to be a bit embarrassed when Mom pulls these pictures out for their girlfriends to see. And don't think I won't do it :).
PS I apologize to anyone who has been looking for new pictures/posts lately. Hopefully, now that the holidays are coming to a close I can get back on my game. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year everyone!!

Buzz and Woody

2010-12-07T20:59:00.000-06:00

So, for anyone not in the loop, Braxton has now become obsessed with the Toy Story movies. We borrowed Toy Story 2 from the library several weeks ago. Since that time, he has decided that he is Buzz Lightyear and that Kyler is Woody. For those of you that don't keep up on these kinds of things, Buzz is a super-hero action figure kind of guy, and Woody is a ragdoll cowboy.

So, the other day when we were lazing around the house, Kyler was fussing about something. What it was, I can't remember. So, while Kyler was getting his whine on, Braxton runs up to him, puts his arm around him, and says "Don't fuss, Woody. You're a cowboy. Cowboys don't fuss." Oh, for cute!!

I wanna be a cowboy baby....

2010-11-07T20:43:00.000-06:00

So the bull-o-rama has hit us again. Several weeks ago, I took a girl's vacation to Minneapolis. While I was out of town, the boys took in the bull-o-rama. Ever since, Braxton has become obsessed. He's pulled out the old cowboy boots and hat that he wore for weeks after last year's events, and has been wearing them ever since.

He doesn't wear them to daycare. But the second he gets home, the tennies come off, the boots go on, and the hat is in place. If we go anywhere after coming home, he goes as "Cowboy Braxton", whether it's someone's house, the grocery store, Dairy Queen, it doesn't matter. Sometimes, when he is really into his role, he will only responds to "Cowboy Braxton". It goes like this - "Braxton, come here". Silence. "Braxton..." "(from the other room) Mom! I am Cowboy Braxton!" "Ok, Cowboy Braxton, come here." "(him, running down the hall) Whadya need, Mom??" Ugh.

This cowboy lifestyle leads way to several fun activities. Sometimes, Braxton is "the good cowboy". He runs around with his pistol shooting the "bad/naughty cowboys" (sometimes up to 50 of them!). He told me the other day "Don't worry Mom, I will shoot those naughty cowboys for you". I guess chivalry is not dead!

And during other times, we spend our evenings playing "rodeo". Interestingly, Braxton is not the bull-riding cowboy. No, he is the bull-fighting cowboy (you know, the guy that comes behind and shoos the bull back into it's pen - that guy). It is just crazy to watch his little mind work! My job is to cheer. I cheer for the imaginary cowboy, then I cheer for the bull-fighter. Kyler's job is to play the "baby bull-fighter". That job entails running around in circles until you fall down, I guess. Braxton even had his dad corralling bulls and spurring scarecrows the other day. As you can see, it's a family event.

Now that Braxton is officially a cowboy, of course, it is important that he have bulls. So, that's what he has. A whole herd of imaginary bulls that go everywhere "Cowboy Braxton" goes. Usually, they are pretty quiet. I'm told that they sleep and eat a lot, which explains that. Whatever Cowboy Braxton is doing or feeling, they are doing or feeling ("Mom, my bulls are tired/hungry/happy/etc.") And usually I end up hauling them around in the back of the Envoy. Braxton says they don't mind it, and that it's not too crowded, but I have to wonder...

Happy Halloween!

2010-11-05T22:46:00.000-05:00

For Halloween this year, I convinced Braxton to be a fireman. We had bought him a fireman dress up outfit for Christmas last year. So, ok, I admit, I was tyring to be cheap... But it worked out pretty well. After Braxton and I decided he woudl be a fireman, we also decided it would be a REALLY good idea for the fireman to have a fireman-dog. So, soon enough, Kyler was dubbed Kyler-the-fireman-dog. So, Kyler, when these pictures come back to haunt you one day, you can blame your brother, too!

An Update

2010-10-26T21:42:00.000-05:00

So, I decided it has been a while that I have posted "stats" on the boys. I've noticed myself going back and checking out what Braxton was doing when he was Kyler's age and how it strikes such fun, random memories. So, here's the latest:

Mr. Braxton James - is three years five months old. He is going on about 2 months in preschool. Since there, he has learned how to write his name (almost), say the Pledge of Allegiance, learned some signing letters, cut with scissors, the list goes on. His highlight of the week is daily show and tell, where he brings, well, anything that happens to be laying around. He knows a ton of colors and shapes. He is in class with his best bud Jackson and second cousin Jacoby.

These days, he is all about taking in new experiences. We have been working hard to get him to football games, the Bull-o-rama, a wedding dance, the park, even Walmart is an "event". And everything we do, must then be played out for days at a time. Last weekend, his dad took him to the rodeo, so we now spend hours and hours playing an intricate game of "bull riding".

He still LOVES to read. We go to the library every few weeks to check out books. He is so in love with reading that he usually has to get reminded several times "Braxton, shut off the light. You NEED to go to sleep!". Every chance he gets to read or have someone read to him, he's on it. He even had Grandma reading him a hymnal the other day!

Braxton remains a sensitive soul. He spends a lot of time watching other people, analyzing situations, etc, before jumping in. He loves his little brother more than anything (though they do fight like animals!), always making sure to speak for him and let us know when Kyler needs something.

And Mr. Kyler Paul. Currently clocking in at 15 months old. He's been walking now for about 4 months. He's started running. Which is really just a "put your head forward and go as fast as you can til you wipe out" approach. About three weeks ago, Kyler had tubes put in his ears due to ear infection after ear infection. I think it has opened up a whole new world for him. Before, he was speaking very little. He is still catching on, but doing it quickly. He now has "ma ma" "da da" "more (mo')" "no" "bye bye (buh buh)". He is able to nod yes or no, usually with purpose. And can listen to direction (when he wants to - see below).

If you remember, I spent a lot of the beginning of Kyler's life bragging about what a nice, laid back, calm little baby he was. Well, ever since Kyler became mobile, that has changed. For better or worse, well, that's up for debate. Let's just say, if things continue the way they are, he will be officially titled a "hell raiser" by the time he is two years old. He now refuses to put on his coat (handy, being that we are in the middle of a blizzard!), or change his diaper, or sit in a high chair, or, well, just about anything that isn't his idea, he won't do it. I think this is what they mean when they say "asserting his Independence". It is pretty awesome to see him tackling all of these new things, though, I must say. He gives his brother a run for his money, that is true.

Pictures of the boys dancing.

It will be so great to see how their personalities and abilities continue to grow and change. And how their relationship continues to grow. Who would have ever guessed that two little men could do this to a mom? Well, I guess any other mom could have told me... :)

Cupcake

2010-10-03T10:06:00.000-05:00

The boys and I had day all to ourselves yesterday. Jon was busy working, so we hung out just the three of us. We played at the house, went to Walmart, played outside with the neighbors (Braxton's buddy Wyatt), and had cupcakes! As you can tell, Kyler was a bit more excited about the cupcakes that Braxton was. And, no, I didn't bake them. I bought them. But, hey, it's the thought that counts, right :) ??

First Day of Preschool

2010-10-03T09:46:00.000-05:00

Braxton started preschool about three weeks ago. And he LOVES it! He goes three mornings a week (it is right across the hall from his daycare classroom). His teacher, Ms. Tammy, is amazing. His cousin Jacoby and his best bud Jackson are both in his class (you can imagine what that is like!). Since he started, he has met a police man and the fire department. He's learned how to dial 911 and say the pledge of allegiance. He loves to bring his backpack and pick out his show and tell. I think he's officially been bitten by the learning bug!

Oh, what a life

2010-09-28T22:00:00.000-05:00

So, this has been the month of change in our great world of Perkins-ness. As many people know, I was the board president of the board of the boys' daycare center. Due to some unforeseen circumstances (and a lot of really crappy timing), we had to close the center. Two of our caregivers left the center to open their own daycare. Unfortunately, they used some pretty nasty tactics to recruit over half of our kids. We just weren't able to pull through. The center had been in existence for over 25 years, so to be one of those at the forefront of the decision to close was really tough. We decided to close in August, shut our doors the 3rd of September, and auctioned everything off on the 18th.

This is experience has taught me so much. About people, about life, about change. For some reason that I am still not really able to peg, I took this entire thing very personally. I felt guilt over the decision to close. There were so many questions about what could have been done differently. And the guilt over ALL of the hours and dedication that those before me had put in just to have it close down. Or maybe it was the sense of failure. The fact that nothing in my life has ever come close to going this terribly wrong before. Never had anything blown up in my face the way that this did. And there were a good handful of people that were not afraid to let me know it! And the idea that I was so blindsided by people I cared about. People that cared for my children, none the less. To know that people are not always what you think they are is a tough lesson to learn. Or maybe it was because this whole thing was so directly linked to my children. Consider it the mother lion instinct. I am nothing if not a fighter. And rationally, I knew that my kids are 1 and 3, that kids move daycares all the time, that they would be fine. But my heart-thinking wasn't quite so rational.

But also, despite all that, I've also learned a few other things. I've learned where my supports are. And I've learned I have a lot of it. I am blessed a million times over with amazing family and friends. I've learned that I CAN pull through some tough situations and that maybe I'm tougher than I thought. I've learned that my kids really are fine. That the care that they receive during the day is VERY important, but when it comes down to it, I am their rock, and I'm not going anywhere. One quote that I came across during this whole thing was "Giving up does not always mean you failed. Sometimes giving up means you are strong enough to let go."

And such is the trial and tribulation of the world called motherhood. It has now been almost a month since the center closed. And things are looking up. Braxton LOVES his new daycare and has started preschool. Kyler is adjusting. It is getting better every day (But still a struggle. He's getting tubes in his ears next week, which should help, but that's a whole different story...). And the ability to let go of that responsibility has done a lot for my sanity. The new center has already asked me if I'm interested in sitting on their board. I told them I am on hiatus for the foreseeable future...

I guess what I am saying is, you know what, sometimes life is hard. And in the thick of it, it is so easy to lose perspective. But the fact of the matter is that life could be a whole hell of a lot worse. My kids and husband are safe and healthy. Our home is still in an upright position. I have a few dollars to my name. I call that good enough for me. Screw the rest of it ;).

A Busy Weekend

2010-09-08T07:45:00.000-05:00

Over Labor Day Weekend, Jon was gone on a wild elk hunt in Montana. From last report, it didn't sound like it was going too well... As of this afternoon, he had one shot, which was unsuccessfful. It has been raining out there for several days, and from what he tells me, once it rains, everything turns into a mess. He said to me "I just hope we can get out of here tomorrow...". So, we'll see if and when he returns home :).

While he was away, the boys and us had a great time. We spent most of the weekend with Aunt Kerri, Cousin Kaleb, and Grandpa Glen (Grandma had to work). We went to the wild-west shoot out at the buffallo. Braxton was pretty impressed. Anyone older than 4 wasn't... And on Sunday, we all ventured down to Aberdeen to check out storybook land. Everyone had a GREAT time. The little boys just loved the little slides and playground equiptment, and most of all just running free. And Braxton was in awe of all of the different fairytale creatures he could climb on, jump on, take pictures with, etc. He kept asking "what's next!?".
Spending the weekend with Kerri and Kaleb was a ton of fun. I wonder, if Kyler and Kaleb could talk, if they would say the same thing... Now that Kyler is mobile, and a bit more vocal, the two of them fight over EVERYTHING. I do not know how many times one or the other was told "NO". "No, don't hit him. No, don't push him over. No, that's not your toy. No, Kyler, do NOT hit him with that rooster!" Oh, my! If they weren't both busy, busy, busy, they were TROUBLE, trouble, trouble! A sign of things to come?

A Night at the Races

2010-09-08T07:13:00.000-05:00

Braxton with best bud Jackson :).

Oh, so long!

2010-08-17T22:24:00.000-05:00

So, it has been a LONG time since I have posted anything on our little family blog. Hopefully people have not given up on looking for updates! I am now going on about six weeks (if not more). I guess that gives you a pretty good idea how busy our summer has been!

It has been a crazy last month and a half. I'll make a point to put up some more pictures of the boys and the family. But, just to give you a quick update: Braxton starts his first year of Preschool next week (!!!). He is really looking forward to loading up his "pack pack" with his new school supplies. His latest step towards independence is dressing himself. He has been busy hanging with dad, whether it is softball games, races, or scouting deer. Like father, like son :).

And Kyler, too, has been busy. He is now completely mobile. He walks everywhere. Thus, has become a major pain in the butt to his big brother. He wants to be right there by Braxton's side. And the days of passively handing over whatever Braxton wants are long gone. He has gained a new "fighting" attitude. Like mother, like son ;).

Happy summer everyone!

The Birthday Bash

2010-07-08T22:10:00.001-05:00

We rang in the boys' birthdays with much celebration a few weeks ago. We set up camp out at the local campground and invited all of our friends and family out for the big event. We spent a gorgeous weekend out at the campground, and on Sunday afternoon everyone joined us for the big celebration. We had games and barbecued. The boys had a great time (after Braxton got over the shock of all the people, that is). We are so fortunate to have so many loved ones that are near by! We count our blessings every day for that. Matt and Molli and Rhett, Kerri, and Kaleb even traveled from Fargo and Bismarck to spend time with us. We are so proud of our two little men and for all the joy they bring to our world. :)

Braxton fell out of the camper the day before. Poor kid! You should have seen the welt on his shin!

Cuddly Cousins

Mom & Dad go on vacation

2010-07-08T21:50:00.000-05:00

The first week in June, Jon and I took a much needed "Grown up" vacation. Several friends and us traveled to northern Minnesota and chartered a houseboat. We were on Rainy Lake, which is right near the boundary waters. The digs were rough, to say the least, but all the better, right? And I was VERY happy that I didn't get sea sick. I'm the kind of person that gets sick on just about anything. I swing too high, I start to get a little pukey. So, to say I made it through the whole trip without one barf is to say a lot :).

The guys were a little disappointed that the fishing wasn't very good that weekend (p.s. I caught the biggest fish all weekend!), but I can tell you that I had a BLAST! I brought a stack of books and a cooler full of drinks, and had a very nice, baby-free time.

We caught a turtle off the back of the boat!! Fortunately, pretty sure he was unharmed.

The four days we were gone was the longest that I have ever been away from either of the boys. So, by Monday, I was itching to get home. It is great to leave, but it is even better to come back! Braxton kept asking what we did on vacation. After everything I told him, he said "Oh! Like Bernstein Bears and Too Much Vacation?". Yeah, something like that...

Memorial Day Weekend

2010-06-04T23:08:00.000-05:00

Over Memorial Day weekend, we ventured out on our maiden voyage with our new camper. We had A BLAST! Matt and Molli stayed with us most of the weekend, and Tim and Kristin joined us the final night. The boys had a great time - eating all kinds of junk, playing on the swing set, wrestling in the camper. Kyler got a little frustrated that he couldn't go everywhere everyone else went, as he refused to crawl on the grass. More incentive for him to walk, I guess. Braxton absolutely loved playing bean-bag toss, Norwegian golf, and horseshoes. He called them "ringers", which sounded an awful lot like "wieners", but whatever, I guess :).

I will have to say we are all looking forward to our sophomore voyage just as much. Seems we've found a new family hobby!

Thirsty

2010-06-04T09:45:00.000-05:00

So, Braxton came to me last night and said "Mom, Kyler's drinking water".

"Oh?" I say, not thinking anything of it.

"Yep. Mom, he's drinking it out of the potty!!"

Happy 3rd Birthday, Braxton

2010-06-01T22:51:00.001-05:00

Last Tuesday, we rang in Braxton's 3rd birthday. This was the first year he really "got" it. Really understood that the day was for him and that we were celebrating something important. We celebrated the day with a small pizza and ice cream cake gathering at our house. We are planning a bigger party at our new camper later in June to celebrate both Braxton and Kyler's birthdays.

I am not even sure what to say about the last year of Braxton's life. It has been, well, Amazing! To see a little toddler turn into a little boy before my very eyes! He has really become my "little man", my "best guy", as we say.

When he reads back on this, I want him to know that these are the things I love most about him:

1. Your love for your brother. Every day when you wake up, you have to find Kyler. Then cuddle with him for what seems like forever. Whenever you get an owie, you say "I want my Kyler". Somehow holding on to that little guy makes everything all better.
2. Your intelligence. Your ability to catch on to anything. And your questions. You have come to the age where you want to know everything that is going on around you. And you are learning it, too!
3. Your love of reading. Reading, all the time! Ever since you were a small toddler, you have had a love of reading. Any book you can get your hands on, you are asking someone to read to you. I bet you read 10 books a day! Right now, Bernstein Bears are high on your list. You started reading Mom and Kerri's old ones, but now have acquired a few of your own and found their shelf at the library.
4. Your soft heart. You are so tender hearted, always wearing your emotions on your sleeve. You are never afraid to say "Mommy, I love you so much" or "Daddy, I missed you today". You are never stingy with the hugs and kisses and I can always count on you to make my day a little bit better.
5. Your ability to make me laugh. Whether it's "Hey, Mom, you wanna see something funny?" or hearing you belly laugh when Dad tickles you, you always know how to get me going!

And just for good measure, here are a few things that I will not miss as they pass along:
1. You - picking your nose - ALL THE TIME! What's with that? Get your finger out of there already!
2. Your potty accidents. Though I try to be patient and don't let you know it drives me crazy, I cannot understand how you can pee-free for a week, and then have four accidents in two days. How is that possible?? But you keep plugging along, and I have to love you for that!
3. I guess I can't think of anything else. Must have caught me on a good day ;).

Love for always, Mom

Weekend at Cousin Kaleb's

2010-06-01T22:17:00.000-05:00

A photographer in the making??

Boy, was it windy!

2010-05-27T09:48:00.003-05:00

On Tuesday, it was VERY windy around here. On the way to daycare, Braxton and I were talking about the wind and everything blowing around. I then went to unload the boys to take them inside the center. I took Braxton out first, and as he is standing beside me, waiting for me to get Kyler out, he says to me,

"Mom, if Kyler blows away, we could get a different baby." "Oh?", I say. "Yeah", he says, "one that's bigger".

Nice to know you're appreciated, huh, Kyler?

I don't want a haircut, Mom!!

2010-05-04T21:55:00.004-05:00

When it comes to haircut time for Bracky, we bribe him with about everything. Ok, so every parenting book you read says "don't bribe your kids". Obviously, their children have hair down to their you-know-where! We bribe him and I'm not afraid to admit it! First, we bribe him with - "look, Daddy's getting his hair cut". Then "you can watch cartoons while we cut it". Then it comes the "I have a pack of fruit snacks!" In the end, it pretty much becomes "Dad, hold his head while I cut". But at least it's done. And in the end, Bracky has a nice head of trimmed hair, a full tummy, and his fill of cartoons for the day. What more could a kid ask for?

pre-cut

mid-cut

brother laughing at the cut

Bath Time

2010-05-04T21:42:00.001-05:00

Saturday night, we had a bunch of family up to grill out. It was great having everyone up, but the dirty little munchkins needed a good scrub none the less. So, in the tub they went. Though everyone saw a few more butt cheeks than they were probably hoping for that night, we got the job done :).

The boys had a great time having everyone up. And we had a great time bragging about the kids (hey, it was family - they don't get tired of that, right ;). We talked about how great Braxton is doing in his big boy underwear - "I wear big boy underwear because I am a big boy. I only wear diapers at night time." Accidents are pretty few and far between. Though he did have an accident during nap time at daycare last week. When I asked him why he peed his underwear, he looks at me very seriously and says "I didn't pee my underwear. My underwear peed itself." "Oh, really" I say. "Yeah! Silly underwear..." and he runs away. What are you supposed to say to that?

And Kyler was busy loving up to everyone. He absolutely loves to hug and put his head on your shoulder. Though it doesn't last more than a few seconds, it is worth it! Too bad he didn't get to show off his new tricks that night. On Sunday, he's learned to pull himself to standing, and just today gave his first wave "bye bye".

Both boys were in for their checkups on Friday (3 years and 9 months, respectively). Both are looking great. Braxton remains in the 90+ percentile for both height and weight (39 pounds). Kyler is also in the 90+ for height, but is a bit behind his brother in weight at only the 75th (22 pounds). Besides Kyler having a mild ear infection, both passed everything with flying colors. "They look great" the doctor said. I could have told him that! :)

"Well, that wasn't so bad!"

2010-04-12T21:05:00.003-05:00

Finally, it is gone. The white anklet that has been attached to Braxton for the last four months is finally GONE! To give those that don't know some background, Braxton was in the hospital on Christmas Eve. He had some tests done. We thought he might be having seizures. Anyways, the tests all came back normal and he has been fine. So, nothing that we are worrying about now, but just so you know the story... While he was there, they had to put an ID band on. They put it on his ankle. For some reason, he asked to keep it on. So, OK, no big deal. We left it on. Well, days turned to weeks, which turned to months. Eventually, he flatly refused to take it off. And at some point, he decided that "It will hurt" to cut it off. Several times, Braxton would agree just long enough for Jon to get the scissors out, and then he would again absolutely refuse. Kicking, screaming, the whole bit. So, the past several months we have spend explaining to people "What is on his ankle?". The name has long past disappeared. So, it was simply this dirty, white plastic band. And then we would have to tell the whole story. People kinda looked at us like "Huh. Odd." But we just shrugged. That's our man, we would say. He just likes things his way. Well, last night, Jon gave him a deal he could not resist. "If you let me cut off your bracelet, we can go outside and play a little more baseball." That was all it took. Braxton braved up, held his breath, and let his daddy cut. The first thing out of his mouth? "Well, that wasn't so bad!" :)

Status Updates

2010-04-05T16:25:00.007-05:00

So it's been awhile since I've given the "status" of the boys. You know, that stuff that you always ask your mom when you're old - "How old was I when I crawled? When was I potty trained? What was I like then?" I figure if I put it in writing, it will be there for them to read. And then when they have kids, they can make all the same comparisons that we do now... (that is given blogger doesn't vanish into thin air one of these days, then I'm in trouble :)

Bracky James - We are about two months shy of his third birthday. We have hit the potty training hard in the last two weeks. He's been wearing "big boy underwear" to daycare for about a week. Unfortunately, we are still having about 2 accidents a day. But, heck, that's better than nothing! And he is so proud of himself every time he goes. I never thought I would be so excited about pee and poop! (Update: We were three days dry. Until we are eating supper tonight and Braxton says, "I'm peeing my underware!". Well, here's to three good days. And the countdown starts again... :)

Braxton is talking up a storm. He has so much to say! (though he gets pretty quiet around people he doesn't know) He can spell his name, as well as Kyler's and Mom and Dad. He is using concepts like "yesterday" and "tomorrow". He tries to bargain his way out of things. He can "read" simple books to himself. His vocabulary gets him into a bit of trouble, though, because he has become a bit of a bossy pants, though he will disagree - "I'm not a boss boss, Mom. YOU are a boss boss."Whatever...

As of last week, he has officially moved OUT of the tent he has been sleeping in since Christmas. No warning, no idea why. He just got into bed last week and that is where he has stayed. At least now I don't have to explain to other people why my kid sleeps in a tent...

And Kyler Baby (as his brother refers to him) - is a little over eight months now. Soon, I think he will be pulling himself up. He can get from laying to sitting. And last week, he started crawling. It is amazing to me how one day he can't go anywhere, and the next day, he can make laps around the house. We put up the gate yesterday. And we've had a few minor accidents (mostly because mom and dad forget that he moves around now). Unfortunately, he has a new fascination with Braxton's potty chair. So, all day is Put the potty up, Put the potty down, And up, And down...

He can feed himself some foods (though it takes a while...). He is da da-ing and ba ba-ing everywhere. He laughs at everything - especially his brother. And he cries when you leave the room. He's getting a bit of stranger anxiety, so he won't be content with just anyone any more. Though getting more verbal all the time, he continues to be a very happy baby. He is content with most anything and is pretty easy to please. That is, unless you are not feeding him fast enough. Then you're in trouble.

So, as you can see, Jon and I stay busy. Some days, I feel more like a cattle hearder than anything else :). And as I watch the laundry pile up and the fridge empty out, I often think that there is no way to get ahead. And, in all honesty, I think every mom would agree that you don't. There is always something that needs to be done. But, at the end of the day, as I colapse on the couch amidst the mess, I count my blessings for the wonderful family that I have. I am thankful.

Happy Easter!

2010-04-05T16:13:00.006-05:00

Here is hoping that everyone had a great Easter weekend! I know that we did. The whole crew headed up to Minot to spend with the Johnson crew (Grandma Carol's family). We headed up Saturday morning after the blizzard had passed by. After a tasty lunch and a little shopping for mom, we hit the pool. Braxton was loving it (except that the water was FREEZING!). Kyler, well, not so much. After about five minutes, he ended up in Grandma's lap. About five minutes after that, he was sleeping... We then ate our heart out on pizza and Braxton got to play games with his new-found best buddies. (To say that the little ones were doted on is the understatement of the year!) And to our amazement, all the babies (including cousin Kaleb!) slept all night long!

Sunday, after a morning swim, we went to Great Aunt Sally's for an Egg-ceptional ;) dinner and Easter egg hunt. It was the first holiday in a LONG time that everyone was there. Each of my cousins was there for at least part of the weekend. And all of my aunts and uncles as well. It is so amazing to see everyone "grown up". And to get caught up on everyone's lives. We definitely fill a house, that is for sure! I feel so blessed to have such wonderful people to call my family. It is just too bad that we don't get to see them as often as I would like.

Our next big adventure - camping at Grandpa's cabin over the 4th of July. I can't wait! Mouse River, here we come!!!

Why I Love Saturday Mornings

2010-03-27T21:10:00.005-05:00

Ok, I can't get the video to download. Sorry everyone! I'll keep trying...

R-O-D-E-O

2010-03-08T21:51:00.000-06:00

To the rodeo we go (or went...). On Sunday. And oh what a day! We had a chance to spend the day in Valley City with some great friends. We ate at the Pizza Corner, went to the Winter Show Rodeo, enjoyed some air games, and made our travels back home, exhausted, but in a good way. We have been talking about the rodeo with Braxton all week. When it was the day to go, he was sooo excited to put on his cowboy hat and boots and tromp through some mud. He enjoyed watching all of the different animals, the cowboys, and the clown. He said that the horses were his favorite part.

Braxton was pretty good, given that the only nap he'd had that day was the 30 minute drive to Valley. And Kyler was just along for the ride as usual. He got a little tired of sitting around, and took a little cat nap, but for the most part just wanted someone to talk to... So, on the way home yesterday evening, we were all a glow with post-rodeo bliss. Bracky kept asking to "come here again another day". Kyler was zonked out. Dad and Mom were exhausted from hauling kids around all day. And we all smelled faintly of poop. Ah, the love of a family :).

At the rodeo

Bracky and Jackson bouncing like crazy

Us, waiting for Braxton

Six Month Pictures

2010-02-10T21:30:00.000-06:00

What a little man we have! To believe that Kyler is already six months old! The last six months have just flown by. He's continuing to grow, as all little babies will. He is sitting, and scooting a bit, rolling, and playing. He laughs all the time now, cries when you leave the room, and da-da-da's with the best of them. He enjoys spending time in his bouncer and has outgrown his first carseat. He has his "best girl" at daycare - Chelsie (one of his caregivers) has got him wrapped around her finger. He just melts when she's around. When he was in for his six month check up, he came in at 18 pounds. This was about in the 75th percentile. His height was in the 95th, if I recall...

He remains the apple of his brother's eye, and (to his dismay at times) the focus of much of Braxton's attention. Braxton talks to Kyler ALL the time. Sings him ABCs, pulls his paci in and out, tells him stories, and repeats EVERYTHING that he hears us say to Kyler - "It's OK, baby. You're fine, honey. I love you, Kyler." Braxton also enjoys giving me a play by play of Kyler's activities - "Mom, Kyler's sleeping. Oh, now he's awake. Mom, Kyler's happy. Oh, now he's sad. He's crying, Mom. Now he's laughing at me!". And the nicknames continue to grow - "Kyler-Kyler", "Kyler Paulie", Kylerio", "Kyler-baby", etc, etc. Wow. I can only imagine what this duo will be like in a few years... :)

Big Boy Haircut

2010-02-10T21:11:00.000-06:00

Braxton FINALLY let me cut his hair with the clippers this week. Though he was pretty squirmy, he sat through the whole ordeal. I couldn't beleive how different he looked when all was said and done!

(I think he was a little itchy in these pictures... :)

Camping

2010-02-10T21:04:00.000-06:00

For Christmas, Braxton was extra lucky to be given a very cool "Cars" tent and sleeping bag from Uncle Dave and Aunt Sarah. We set it up in the living room the day he got it. Shortly thereafter, he started sleeping in it. First, it was for naps on the weekends. Pretty soon, he wanted to sleep in it at night. So, ok... Finally, he would ONLY sleep in it. So, we moved it into his room. And that is where he's "camped out" ever since. He keeps all of his gear close by, including his blankies, his books, a few stuffed animals, a flashlight, and whatever else he comes across that he thinks could be useful. Today was the first day he mentioned sleeping in his bed again, but when it came down to it, back into the tent he went. So, there he will be until who knows when...

Best Buds

2010-02-10T20:55:00.000-06:00

Braxton and his best buddy Jackson just hanging out.

And the fish won...

2010-01-18T20:52:00.000-06:00

Braxton's first ice fishing experience. The day after Kaleb's birthday party with Dad, Papa Glen, and Uncle Rhett. 20 miles outside of Bismarck. Beautiful sunny day. Several hours of fishing. Many a Twizzler eaten. Not a fish to be seen...

Happy First Birthday Cousin Kaleb

2010-01-18T20:48:00.000-06:00

This weekend, we all trecked over to Bismarck to ring in the big "1" for our favorite cousin.

Oh, How They Grow!

2010-01-18T20:41:00.000-06:00

Now that Kyler is nearing the six month mark, I figure it's time to write down the "where we're at now" stats. I am learning so quickly that I do not remember the specific age or time when Braxton accomplished the many baby-growing tasks. As Kyler accomplishes more and more, I find myself going back on the blog to see what Braxton was up to at this age. What is neat to see is that they are accomplishing things about the same time and at about the same pace. Braxton, at this age, was quite a bit bigger, though. I point that to two things - 1. formula vs breastmilk, and 2. personality (not to say that Braxton was a bit more demanding or anything... :).

Kyler will be six months old later this week. Right now, he is sitting up on his own. He has been for about 2-3 weeks now. He is rolling (only one way). And can turn himself in a complete 360 on his belly. He started eating rice cereal about 2-3 weeks ago. And since then we have started adding in baby food. He's mastered squash, carrots, and green beans. Oh, and had his first helping of prunes tonight (he's been trying to poop all day - just tryin' to help the kid out :). He is able to put his paci in and out on his own. He is "talking" a lot - Jon's convinced he's sayhing "dada". At a doctor's appointment last week, he weighed in at 18 pounds even. He has two teeth on the bottom. They popped through about the same time, sometime between Thanksgiving and Christmas (forgive me, that's the best I got right now!).

Kyler continues to be a very satisfied little guy. He is happy just to sit and admire the world around him. His dad calls him a mama's boy, but I'm taking full advantage of the special attention I get. I know it won't last long :). He also loves to watch his big brother run around a play. And he is starting to really respond to Braxton when he gives him his one-to-one brotherly talks. He continues to sleep through the night, but has picked up a habit of waking up at 5:30. Not when I really want to be starting my day - especially on the weekends. But, if you're lucky, you can cuddle him back to sleep for an extra hour or so.

You can tell that every day is an exciting challenge for him. Whether it is playing with his toes or stealing his brother's toys, he is enjoying each and every momen. I am envious of his abilty to find such amazing joy in the mundane things in life. We should all take a lesson or two from a baby and take the time every day to admire those things!

Merry Christmas Everyone!!

2009-12-27T16:56:00.000-06:00

We have just finished our week-long Christmas extravaganza. Right now, I am watching Braxton playing in his "Cars" tent and Kyler rolling around on the floor among all of the gifts, wrapping paper, and bows. It has been a fun and exciting week, to say the least! We had a chance to see so many of the people that we love. We've eaten about every kind of Christmas goodie you could imagine. And we've sang more renditions of "Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer" than one person should be able to humanly sing. And we endured the "Great Blizzard of 2009".

It has been an opportunity for me to not only enjoy the season, but to reflect on the two bright stars in my life. Amidst the chaos of the holiday season, I took some time to count not only my Christmas cookies, but to count my blessings. I have two wonderful little boys in my life that make each day, and especially each day of the holidays, better than ever before.

Below are several of the pictures from our week of Christmas bliss. From the Christmas program at daycare (pictures to come), to the holiday celebration at Gma/Gpa Southams, to the trip to Santa's workshop, to the celebration w/ the Perkins clan. We also had our own little Christmas celebration and two fun days at Granny Hunt's. Whew, what a week! :)

Christmas Card Out-Takes

2009-12-12T09:39:00.000-06:00

Don't worry, Kyler made it through without too many bumps or bruises :).

I'm a cowboy, baby

2009-11-26T10:34:00.001-06:00

I wanna be a Cowboy baby - Ridin' at night 'cause I sleep all day

Cowboy baby - I can smell a pig from a mile away

Last weekend, I talked Jon and the boys into going to Walmart with me. As Kyler and I dutifully picked out the groceries, Jon says "Braxton and I will be right back". Well, about 20 minutes later, here comes Jon, and behind him, Braxton, walking like he had something in his pants. Well, looking a bit further down, I discover that Braxton is wearing his very own pair or cowboy boots. They both look at me with puppy dog eyes, and say "pleeeease??". That's the last time I let the two of them out of my sight at Walmart!

Well, since that day, Braxton will ONLY wear the boots. And he has inherited two of his daddy's old cowboy hats. Twice this week, he went to daycare with his hat (and of course the boots) on. The ladies at daycare now call him "cowboy". And Braxton has assured me that Kyler, too, will be a cowboy "when he gets big".

Thursday, when I picked him up, I handed him his cowboy hat that was patiently waiting for him above his coat cubby. You could tell that he was excited to tell me something. As I am putting on his coat, he is gathering his thoughts. And then he says to me - "Mom, I'm going to put on this hat. And then I will be a cowboy. And then I'm going to ride horsies. And bulls. And I'm going to chase pigs. And then the pigs will fall in the mud!". We both laughed so hard, we could hardly get out the door. What a kid!

Four Month Checkup

2009-11-26T10:29:00.000-06:00

Kyler had his four month checkup this week. From the words of the doctor - "he's perfect". Yeah, I know :). He weighed in at 17 punds and was about 27 inches long. That puts him around the 90 - 95th percentile. Sounds pretty good to me!

Kyler has been busy learning all kinds of new tricks. He has started rolling over. No more leaving him hanging out on the couch! He is smiling and almost laughing. He continues to sleep through the night - about twelve hours when we don't have to wake him in the morning. Couldn't ask for a better kid!

Life continues to be wild and crazy with two little rugrats around. I fall into bed every night completely exhausted. And the To Do list continues to grow and grow. But every day, I get to laugh with my family, I am amazed at some new feat that my boys accomplish, and I end every day with a hug and a kiss and an I love you from three wonderful men. Who could ask for more ;)?

Happy Halloween

2009-11-26T10:26:00.000-06:00

Just a month too late... Sorry :).

Three Month Pictures

2009-11-01T16:23:00.000-06:00

Cousin Time

2009-10-25T16:40:00.000-05:00

Braxton, Kyler, and I (and Grandma Carol) are just getting home for an exciting weekend in Bismarck visiting Aunty Kerri and Cousin Kaleb. We spent the night at the hotel and swam (and swam, and swam!). Bracky wore his fish-jacket. He loved jumping off the edge and floating around. He was a little nervous about all of the waterfalls and stuff the first time, but was splashing around like crazy today. Kaleb was really loving the water and having everyone walk him around. He was splashing with the rest of them. And Kyler even got into the action a little, that is until he fell asleep by the edge of the pool. But he gave it a good run.

All six of us tried to make a run at sharing a hotel room. That didn't go quite as well as the pool, though. I have learned to never give a 2 year old diet coke and M&Ms an hour before bed... That didn't work out too well. At 10:30, I was driving around Bismarck with Bracky in the back seat, until he finally fell asleep. Right before that, the room was quiet, I thought he was surely sleeping, and he bursts out in song - "It's the Micky Mouse Clubhouse! Come inside! It's fun inside!..." Oh, good lord. About 2 hours later, Kaleb woke up and refused to go back to sleep. Kerri finally took him home - poor guy! (Or poor mom, depending on how you look at it :).

Needless to say, we headed home early today, but all in the name of fun :).

My New Workin' Coat

2009-10-25T16:25:00.001-05:00

Thank you, Uncle Dave and Aunt Sarah, for my new workin' coat. I like it very much!! In fact, I like it so much that I wore it to bed the first night I got it. Dad had to sneak it off after I went to sleep. Since that day, I've pretty much worn it every second I'm home. My "gobbles" are my favorite part. But the saw and hammer are pretty sweet, too. I like to put my workin' coat on and take pictures. Then I like to show my brother Kyler - "Look, Kyler. I got all my workin' stuffs on!". Today, I took the inside of the hat out, and won't let mom put it back together. But now I just wear the inside of the hat around my neck and the hat on my head. I'm cool like that.

Love, Braxton

The Two Month Check Up

2009-09-22T15:16:00.002-05:00

Kyler went in for his two month check up last week. And you'll be happy to hear that he is growing strong - 13 pounds 11 ounces! That puts him in the 94th percentile. I forget his height, but that was also in the 94th. So, he is keeping up with his brother pretty well.

He continues to treat us well. He has been sleeping through the night pretty consistently from the time he has come home. He is eating well, and just in the last several weeks started sharing a beautiful smile with us. He started daycare last week and the ladies all compliment him on how well tempered he is.

Having two little men in the house (along with one big one) has been keeping everyone on their toes. I have absolutely cherished my time with my two squirts. Along with twice the laundry, twice the dishes, twice the diapers, is twice the smiles, twice the snuggles, twice the love. So, though it's a lot of work, and I go a little crazy from time to time, it's worth every second :).

Me Do It Myself

2009-09-22T15:04:00.005-05:00

We have officially entered the world of the terrible twos. And terrible is the word for it! I think I have figured out that the entire thing revolves around the poor little guy's need to feel big. Absolutely every tantrum that happens in our house starts with, "No, Mommy. Me do it myself!". And the fun begins! "We have to get dressed." "No, me do it." "But you can't do it by yourself. Let me help you." "No! Me do it myself!" This discussion eventually leads to a throw down, screaming, crying mess of a child. Last week, I had a two year old streaking, butt naked, down my driveway. Or...

"Braxton, let Mom buckle you in the car seat." "No, me do it MYSELF." "Ok, you try, and then Mom gets to try." "No, Mommy! Go away!". About 20 minutes later, me and the tear streaked soul are driving down the road, with him screaming "I want my yama! I want my daddy! I want my green blankies!". I'm so proud of my little man and his strong will. I know some day, it will be a wonderful asset. He will storm his way through so many challenges in his life. Right now, though, well, it's not a lot of fun! The scariest part, I'm afraid, is that every day I see a bit more of me coming out in him. And, my, oh my...

We saw a hummingbird!

2009-09-22T15:02:00.002-05:00

Random Pictures

2009-09-22T14:55:00.005-05:00

Some pictures for your enjoyment. Nothing special, just hangin' with the boys :).

The Same??

2009-09-11T09:54:00.004-05:00

Well, what do you think? Two pictures of two very different little boys. Hard to tell, though! Everyone has an opinion - "oh, they look exactly alike!" "my, they are soooo different!". Depends on who you ask. I FINALLY have some pictures of Kyler with his eyes open, but haven't uploaded them yet. When I get around to getting that done, I'll post those as well. And the debate will continue :).

Congrats Uncle Dave and Aunt Sarah

2009-08-17T13:09:00.002-05:00

This weekend was a big weekend for the Perkins family. Dave and Sarah got married!! And what a celebration it was! We celebrated in Fargo all weekend long. Between the rehearsal dinner, the wedding, the dance, the family, the hotel, the pool, we had a great time. Braxton and Dad looked handsome in their tuxes. And Braxton made a successful trip up the aisle as the best looking ring bearer ever (sun glasses included)! Even though he had to get drug out of the church twice screaming "I want my daddy!".

Congratulations Dave and Sarah. And thank you for the WONDERFUL weekend. We wish you all the best! All our love!

My Broder Kyler

2009-08-17T12:55:00.003-05:00

Kyler is coming on his 4 week mark. It is amazing how quickly the time has gone! He is growing like a weed - 10 pounds 5 ounces at his check up last week!! You can tell, too. Everything is starting to get just a bit fatter (which makes him even cuter :). We have been lucky - he continues to be VERY good to us. He is only up once at night. He eats like a champ. And cries only if he REALLY has to (or is stuck in his car seat too long). I guess Jon and I figured maybe it's God's way of saying that we've paid our dues, being that we survived a rather temperamental first baby (we still love you, Braxton :).

And Braxton continues to be a very proud big brother. His first question when he wakes up - "Where's my Kyler? Let's wake Kyler up!". If Kyler is crying in the car - "We're almost home Kyler. Almost home." If he fusses at home - "Mom, Kyler's hungry." If someone he doesn't know is holding Kyler - "Mom, what's that guy doing?" - as he goes to stand guard right next to his brother. At bed time - "Give Kyler a hug and kiss, too" - followed by about 15 kisses, including the head, both arms, and sometimes the legs, too. And a hug that will occasionally elicit a "ugh" out of the baby :). If this keeps up, Kyler won't have a care in the world. He'll just have to look to his big brother to step in!

Kyler Paul

2009-07-27T09:58:00.002-05:00

On July 21st, at 4:56 PM, we welcomed in the newest member of our family. Kyler Paul Perkins entered our world on a beautiful summer afternoon. He weighed 9 pounds, 3 ounces and was 21 1/2 inches long (yeah, he looks like a 4 week old). Despite his hefty size, labor and delivery went off without a hitch. Mom is now 1 to 3 in the battle of the sexes, and a little nervous about being overtaken by all of the testosterone in our house. But, hey, what the heck. I'm growing pretty fond of these little guys!

Mom and baby have now been home for five days, and so far, so good. So far, he appears to have quite the easy going temperament. He fusses when he is hungry and, well, that's about it. Last night, he slept from 9:30 to 6 with just waking up once at 2 AM for a snack. He has done really well sleeping all along. Needless to say, I spend a good part of the night checking on him. I've even pulled the "finger under the nose" thing a few times.

For those of you that remember, our first go-around with the baby-world was not nearly as pleasant. Braxton was not near as kind to us, He started out kicking pretty much from the beginning. So, I am hoping that everyone is right when they say "every baby is different" and that Kyler will stay this sweet, but I have my guard up! Regardless, we are all so happy to have him here with us. :)

Speaking of the little squirt, Braxton is really enjoying the Big Brother role. He asks often "Where's my Kyler?" or shows everyone "That's my broder - Kyler". He wonders often "What's Kyler doing?", and now tells me often "Kyler likes milk!" :). He offered Kyler some cereal to go with his milk, but Kyler didn't take him up on it (just yet).

So, from now on, I will get to provide everyone with an update on both of my little gentlemen. Hold on, everyone, we're in for a wild ride!

My Fish-Jacket

2009-07-06T16:18:00.010-05:00

Over the 4th of July, our family headed to Alexandria, MN, to spend the weekend with the Hunt/Perkins family (all 20-25 of them!). And, boy did we have a good time. We were so lucky to spend the weekend on the lake, eating, swimming, boating, watching fireworks, etc. We arrived Friday evening. That night, Braxton had his first boat ride. After that, he was sold. He spent a good majority of the weekend in the boat watching all the big kids ski and tube and helping everyone else drive the boat. If he wasn't doing that, he was either sleeping or eating (or being kinda crabby cause he wasn't doing enough of either!). Saturday night, we drove the pontoon over to watch the fireworks, which he also had a blast doing - "Mommy, where'd the fireworks go?" (just keep watching) "Mommy, clap your hands!" (oook...) "Mommy, clap your hands again!" (sure thing...).

Obviously, Braxton is now a man of the water. Which is obvious by the fact that from the time of the first ride Friday evening to getting loaded up to come home, he wore his lifejacket. He wore it in the boat, in the house, in the yard, everywhere. He took it off long enough to change clothes, and then it went back on. He fell asleep in it. The only way we could get it off is wait until he feel asleep and then pry it off of him. Though he was hot as could be, and couldn't really turn his head any more, that meant nothing to him, as long as he had his "fish-jacket" on. Every time I would ask if he wanted it off, he would say "No, fish jacket ON!" Good enough...

Now this week, on to water sport #2 - swimming lessons! Should be interesting.

(On the other front, no Independence Day baby for us. Still holding in there. I have pictures I will put up when I get a chance.)

"Dance again, Mama"

2009-06-19T22:39:00.005-05:00

This past weekend, Braxton had his first wedding dance experience. We had a family wedding that we celebrated all weekend long. Being that this was his first time on the dance floor, he took awhile to warm up. He never really did get down and boogy by himself, but he really enjoyed holding onto cousin Jacoby while he danced. And his favorite part was getting tossed from uncle to uncle (and Dad) while they were getting crazy. He even got in a slow dance or two with Grandma and Papa.

Though I knew he enjoyed it, I really didn't think it made that much of an impression. Boy, was I wrong! At least once a day (usually more) Braxton asks me, "Dance again, Mama? Dance again!". I assure him that, yes, we have Uncle Dave's wedding later this summer, and he will surely get to "dance again". But "again" is just not going to come soon enough!

The First "Official" Haircut

2009-06-07T21:39:00.002-05:00

Today, Braxton had his first official haircut. We had trimmed it about six months ago, but that was just to get the fuzz off one side of his head, so I don't really count that one. This was his first "real" one. Though most kids have had at least a few haircuts before their second birthday, the area of hair growth was a bit slow in Braxton's case. I tell everyone that it takes a lot to be such a big guy - he just doesn't have time to grow a lot of hair!

It was a bittersweet experience. Braxton had this headful of beautiful blonde curls. They were so fun to twist and twirl! But, now he has the same beautiful curls, just a little bit smaller :). He looks like such a "big boy". And a pretty hansome big boy, if I do say so myself :).

On another note, Braxton and I both went in for our checkups on Thursday. Braxton came in at 35 pounds and exactly 3 feet tall. That puts him in the 95th percentile for weight and the 90th percentile for height. The doctor still tells me that we have nothing to worry about as long as they are proportionate. But he did follow that up with, "He weighs as much as my five year old!" Well, whatever.... He is healthy as can be, so I can not ask for anything else!

And my checkup went fine. Outside of the typical aches and pains that come along with being in the final weeks of pregnancy, everything is A-Ok. I should be hitting the five week count down any day now. The race is on!!

Campin'

2009-06-07T21:25:00.002-05:00

This weekend was our first camping adventure of the year. The whole thing started the weekend before when Uncle Tim told Jon that he and Kristen wanted us to go. So, Jon and I spent the week getting the ol' ghetto ride ready to go. Then Friday came, and it was FREEZING outside. I think I called Jon three times to try to talk him out of going, giving him a play by play of the most recent weather report. Needless to say, it was a futile effort. We were going camping!

So, we packed up and headed out. We were only heading a few miles out of town, so I knew that at least I could always turn around and head back in after everyone had gone to bed. Fortunatly, though, I didn't need to. The weather actually held for us. The evening was cool, but perfectly nice by the campfire. And even more fortunatly, the heater in the camper held out. So, with four adults, one two year old, one dog, and a working heater in a 7x15 (k, that's a guess) box, we were all quite toasty. I was, though, a little happy that Jon had to be back to town by noon. Saturday would have been miserable!

Though Braxton argued about going earlier in the day - "Bracky no wanna go camping!" - he ended up having a BLAST! Just like last year, he got right into the spirit of things. Digging in all the dirt piles, eating hotdogs and marshmellows, and just running around like a crazy man. And he was so excited when all the Grandma and Papas showed up - "More Yama Papa!!!" - he could hardly stand it! Though getting to bed was a bit of a challenge, it was all in the name of fun. So, now we're off to plan our next big adventure for the summer :).

Happy Birthday to Braxton!

2009-05-25T21:01:00.003-05:00

Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday dear Braxton, happy birthday to you!!

Today, Braxton is officially 2! And what a wonderful birthdya party we had yesterday to celebrate the big occassion. Being that it was also Memorial Day weekend, we decided to have all of the family over for a big bar-b-que. We were lucky to be able to enjoy a beutiful (though a bit chilly) evening eating (and eating...), opening gifts, and running aroudn the yard.

Mom and Dad and all of the grandparents chipped in to get Braxton a swing set for his birthday. After his Dad spent an entire weekend (ok, most of a weekend) putting it up, it has been a hit ever since. Braxton could spend hours swinging, and sliding, and digging in the dirt. With his cousins and aunts and uncles over, it was even more fun!

These are some pictures from the big event. Enjoy :).

The last two years...

2009-05-15T09:08:00.005-05:00

It is hard for me to believe that next week will be Braxton's second birthday. The past two years have been someting unexpected. Everyone tells you "oh, you will love him so much. And your life will never be the same. Motherhood will change you. And how your priorities will change!". I listened, and thought, "Yeah, sure. Ok." Though I couldn't wait to be a mom, I never, ever could have thought it would do to me what it did. To beleive that a little guy would take up most of my waking thoughts, that he is the reason I make every single decision that I make. To have him hold my every dream, every hope, and that the dream be only that he is happy, that he will be a good man, that he will be safe and secure.

And while we all patiently wait the arrival of our second little man (or so we suspect...), I have such a hard time wrapping my mind around the idea that my love can expand. That it can grow to share with two, as it feels stretched to its limits. But, they tell me that a mother's love is infinate. That it goes on forever. And, yes, I think that's probably right...

Below is a poem that I really enjoy about a man and his son, said better than I ever could.

I Have a Boy (Hugh M. Pierce)

I've a wonderful Boy, and I say to him, "Son,Be fair and be square in the race you must run.Be brave if you lose and be meek if you win.Be better and nobler than I've ever been.Be honest and noble in all that you do,And honor the name I have given to you.

I have a boy and I want him to knowWe reap in life just about as we sow,And we get what we earn, be it little or great,Regardless of luck and regardless of fate.I will teach him and show him the best that I can,That it pays to be honest and upright, a man.

I will make him a pal and a partner of mine,And show him the things in this world that are fine.I will show him the things that are wicked and bad,For I figure this knowledge should come from his dad.I will walk with him, talk with him, play with him, too;And to all of my promises strive to be true.

We will grow up together, I'll too be a boy,And share in his trouble and share in his joy.We'll work out our plans when we both will be men.And oh, what a wonderful joy this will be,No pleasure in life could be greater to me.

Faces

2009-04-11T21:55:00.002-05:00

Just goofing around the house.

Cousin Lovin'

2009-04-11T21:47:00.002-05:00

Braxton and I took a trip to Bismarck a few weeks ago to check in on Baby Kaleb. We had a nice time relaxing at Kerri and Rhett's for the weekend. Braxton is warming up to "baby", but it's still a work in progress. The first day and a half, it didn't really even seem that Braxton realized Kaleb was around. Towards the end of our stay, though, he was getting more and more interested. By the time we left, he was bringing Kaleb "bankies" and toys. So, I'm hoping we're on an upswing :). The funniest part of their relationship is that Braxton will not call Kaleb by name. He just calls him "Baby". It goes kind of like this: "Braxton, who is that?" "Baby" "Baby who?" silence... "Is that Baby Kaleb?" "YEP!". Whatever...

Attached are a few pictures the boys took together, including one when Braxton left the poor little guy hangin' (and tippin') :).

And Then There Were 2!

2009-03-21T19:24:00.003-05:00

I figured there was no better time to debute baby number two than the present. This is a picture of me a few days ago, at about week 23 (or a little over 1/2 way through) of our second pregnancy. Along with that is a picture from the ultrasound that we had earlier this week (it's a profile of his face, in case you're wondering). The little guy (or gal) is measuring right on for our due date of July 14th. We decided (ok, I decided) that we didn't want to find out the sex of this baby. That being said, I am 99.9% sure that it is another boy. I have just had that feeling from the beginning. And though we didn't officially see anything that would lead us one way or another, Jon and I both left the ultrasounnd feeling pretty sure we will have another man in the house.

For those of you that wonder about these kind of things, I've been feeling great. No morning sickness, no bloating, no whatever else comes with some pregnancies. I've put on the weight a lot quicker than with Braxton (ugh!), but otherwise been feeling much the same. I can only assume that I and the little guy will sail through this thing pretty easily. I am lucky, I know. And I don't take that lightly! And also for those of you that wonder, Braxton has no idea what's going on. He could care less that my belly is the size of a small island. And doesn't care one bit that he's going to be a big brother. We'll see how that changes in a few months :).

I workin' Daddy!

2009-03-21T11:06:00.003-05:00

Braxton is officially a "working man". Jon has been working hard the last several months on finishing off our basement. With the new baby coming, we figured it was time to finally change our two bedroom house into a four bedroom. And Jon has been very fortunate to have a built-in assistant. Braxton has been the ever faithful handy-man by his Dad's side. He has graduated from "fixing" his toys, the recliner, etc., to "workin' " with Dad. He uses his tools, Dad's tools, or a combination of the two. And whatever his Dad does, he does, too. When you ask him, "Braxton, what are you doing?", his answer is most surely "I workin' ". And if he really wants Jon to get the point, he says "I workin' Daddy, I workin'!". Earlier this week, I was getting Braxton ready to go to school. I grabbed his shoes, and when I put them on his feet, I couldn't help but think - I do not know that there has ever been a two year old going to daycare with his shoes covered in drywall!

Dancing

2009-03-01T11:40:00.006-06:00

A Saturday morning dance-fest to Manny's tool kit.

My Bankie

2009-02-24T20:38:00.002-06:00

You know how some kids suck their thumbs or twirl their hair or otherwise sooth themselves? Well, I have an ear-tickler. There is a sure way to know when Braxton is getting tired. He finds one of his blankies and starts to "tickle". He usually does it when he gets up in the morning, usually before nap time, and always, always before bed. If he is feeling sad and the blankie is no where to be found, you can find him with his finger in his ear rubbing around and around. Tonight, he even shared with me the ear-tickle experience. He went from one of his ears, to the other, then to Mom's ear, then to the other... But he won't let Mom tickle for him - apparently I don't have the technique down quite right :).

The ear-tickling is just one of the roles that the "bankie" plays in Braxton's day to day life. The bankie is a staple in any sleeping event. It also comes in very handy when we play "peek" or to put any of a variety of stuffed animals to sleep (then quickly tear the blanket off, sending the animal flying, and yelling "awake!"). The green blankie in the picture is the "original". Fortunately for us, we have 2 more. One plays a very similar role at daycare. The other, Grandma Sandy gave him as a "back-up" so that the bankie could get a bath once in awhile. Well, though very well intended, the bankies now go as a pair ("mo' bankie"). Along with these, Braxton has also gotten pretty accustomed to bringing 2 stuffed animals to bed - his Hippo (ippo) and his rabbit (this one is pretty clear). And he is adamant that he (not me or Dad) will bring them all to bed. So, to watch the little guy head off to bed is quite entertaining - 2 bankies, 2 animals, and whatever else crosses his mind at the time (a hammer, a book, a hat, whatever) all in his arms, tripping him up, and falling to the floor. Oh, what a kid!

The Hatted Wonder Keeps On Keepin' On

2009-02-09T20:41:00.001-06:00

Snow Daze

2009-02-09T20:36:00.003-06:00

Yesterday, we finally got a chance to take Braxton outside to enjoy the snow. With all of the COLD weather we've been having, we've been stuck looking at the snow out the window for too long. So, with the weather finally halfway warm, we went up to G/G Perkins' to go sledding, throw snowballs to Chance, and even take a short snowmobile ride. Braxton was a trooper, lasting most of two hours. His little nose was pretty pink by the time we were done, but he was keeping up with the best of them!

Kaleb

2009-02-09T20:21:00.002-06:00

Kaleb and Kerri came to visit this weekend. We had such a nice time with them! And I had an awesome opportunity to do a mini-photo shoot for Kaleb's newborn pictures. It was a ton of fun! But those little guys sure do make tough subjects :). We were hoping to get some pictures of the two cousins, but by the time we got around to it, they were both about done with the whole picture idea. So, maybe next time...

Braxton is warming up pretty nicely to the idea of Kaleb. He still won't call him by his name, but he definitely knows who we're talking about. He calls him "baby" and he calls Kerri "Krebby", so he will call him "Krebby baby". Pretty cute :). And he is so gentle with Kaleb. He gives kisses and hugs to his new "favorite" cousin all the time. It will be fun to see the two of them interact when they are both old enough. I can't wait for the little boy games that little boys play- but maybe I should be careful what I wish for!

Meet Cousin Kaleb

2009-01-20T20:45:00.002-06:00

It's official - Braxton is a cousin! And I am an Aunt! And Jon's an Uncle! I know the excitement is extreme, but it's a first for us, and we are so pumped. Kaleb Benedict was born Thursday, January 15th. We all went to Bismarck to see the little guy. And the vote is unanimous - he is probably the cutest baby ever. Ok, neck and neck with a little guy born into our house, but none the less, a pretty cute kid :). I am so excited to see our two little gentlemen grow up together and share and create so many memories. And I count my blessings that our family has been blessed with two wonderful, healthy little boys.

The Hat-ed Wonder

2009-01-20T20:32:00.003-06:00

Again, we are back to the hat. This time, though, it is not just one hat, but 3! We spent some time this evening putting the three hats that sit in Braxton's room on Braxton's head, then off Braxton's head, then on Mom's head, then off Mom's head, and so on. Along with the hats, we found two pairs of mittens. Same thing with them. He did a similar thing this weekend. I decided he was too goofy looking not to take a picture of. Fortunately, there was no one around to think the same of me ;).

Now, enough of the funny stuff - I figured it's been a while since I've given a general update on what Braxton has been up to. He is about 20 months now. So, at times, I think we have officially hit the "terrible twos". We spend a lot of time saying, "Braxton, do you need a time out?". Usually that is all it takes to bring him around, but sometimes we have to actually follow through on our "threat". For the most part, though, he is a very good boy. He is learning to listen very well. He understands almost anything you say to him. And he is really getting to be able to make his needs known, which is very helpful for everyone. I tried to count his words the other day, but lost track at about 50. He is now starting to put two words together. A common example - "Mommy, NO!" :). He is also learning a lot of other things. He is working very hard on his fine motor skills - drawing, eating, sorting, etc. Oh, and dancing! I'm not sure if it a fine motor skill, but if you've ever seen his Dad try to cut a rug, you'll know that it is something that he'll have to work hard at to conquer the generational gap :).

First Hair Cut

2009-01-11T19:09:00.005-06:00

These pictures are about a month old, but I wanted to share with everyone Braxton's first hair cut. Braxton worked very very hard to grow the little bit of hair that has grown on his head so far. Unfortunately, pieces of it grew MUCH longer and faster than others :). So, we decided to snip off a few of those long pieces. We saved the little bit that we trimmed for his baby book. Now that his hair is starting to grow in a bit more, I'm thinking next time he might have to get an "official" cut from someone other than Mom. (If you look close at the last picture, you can see what was lost :)

Merry Belated Christmas

2009-01-01T15:28:00.002-06:00

Just a few of the Christmas photos from the last week. Braxton had a wonderful Christmas. We had an opportunity to celebrate the holidays 5 times!! We traveled to Minot, to Bismarck, to Grandma Laverne's, to Gma/Gpa Perkins', and everywhere in between. We are so thankful to have so many wonderful family members so close to us! And we also enjoyed taking some time to celebrate all of those that are close to our hearts, but far from our homes. And to believe that the holiday season has already come and gone! How does it go so fast??

18 Months

2008-12-11T21:06:00.004-06:00

Braxton turned 18 months old on November 25th. It is hard to believe that he has been in our world for a year and a half now. It has all gone so fast. And now I can not imagine a day without him. Isn't it amazing how such a little person can place such a large imprint on your heart??

These are some of the 18 month pictures that we took that weekend. He was not really into the picture idea, but we at least grabbed a few cute ones.

He also went in for his 18 month check up (and awful shots!). He weighed in at 32 pounds and measured 36 inches. Yes, you are right, that's pretty big! He's yet to drop below the 99th percentile. That means that if you put 100 18 month old kids in a room, he'd be the biggest one there. Oh, boy!! But the doctor says that as long as the two are proportionate, there's nothing to worry about. So, I guess we'll just wait and see. :)

A Boy And His Dog

2008-11-30T11:39:00.003-06:00

It's official. Braxton has officially fallen in love with his dog. He spends much of his time at home concentrating on Chance. He spends time petting her, throwing a ball for her, and when he is not sure where she is, calling her name. Unfortunately, Chance is a pretty tough word for an 18 month old little boy to say. So, she goes by "Dah". Or "Dah Dah". Depending on how bad he wants to find her. He's also learned to say "dog", so sometimes he will try that to get her attention. He even pats the floor or his leg like he has seen us do when we call her. Too bad she hasn't figured out the correlation. She doesn't ever come!

Interestingly enough, Chance continues to by the jealous "big sister". She is not really impressed by Braxton at all. It is obvious that she yearns for the days when she had our undivided attention. The only time she seems to really appreciate him at all is when he has food in his hands. Then he's her best friend! Thus, Chance spends a lot of her time avoiding the (not so gentle) pats, along with working hard to distract our attention from "the kid". I am hopeful, though, that once he is big enough to really play with her, the love with go both ways. Until that time, I guess we'll just wait it out. And watch as Braxton smothers her with all the love an 18 month old heart can hold :).

Baby, it's cold outside

2008-11-11T09:43:00.002-06:00

Yesterday, Braxton and I had the luxury of spending the whole day at home together. I had taken the day off to enjoy a long weekend (being that today is Veteran's day). After his nap, I decided to see how he enjoyed being bundled in all of his "gear". This is the first time he had EVERYTHING on - the boots, the snowpants, the big coat, the hat, the gloves. Boy, was he a sight! You know the Christmas Story, where the little kid falls over in his snowsuit and can't get up? Yeah, that really happens :). Braxton bent over in the entryway and leaned a little too far forward and got stuck!! I tried not to laugh, but boy, was that cute!

Well, as usual, Braxton just LOVED being outside. Unfortunately, for some reason he didn't think he could walk. So, I had to carry him everywhere. We mostly just sat in the snow and threw snowballs to Chance. He thought it was just HILARIOUS to see her jumping up in the air trying to catch 'em. That being said, he thinks everything Chance does is pretty hilarious, so it was no surprise :). I then tried to get him to help me sweep off the driveway, but the no-walking thing kind of got in the way of that. So, we went in to warm up our little pink noses!

Happy Halloween!!

2008-11-01T14:51:00.003-05:00

Hope everyone had a great Halloween! Attached are some of Braxton's Halloween experiences - carving pumpkins, trick or treating at the State Hospital and at the Frontier Fort. As you can see, he wasn't terribly enthused about the whole thing, but he was definitely all eyes!!

Kids Are Weird!

2008-10-19T20:18:00.009-05:00

I am officially naming this weekend "The Weekend of the Hat". Recently, I dug out all of Braxton's winter clothes. Along with some of the new things we bought him, we also rescued his hat and mittens from last year. Well, there must be some fond memories there, because he wanted to wear them all weekend! He wore them yesterday when he was playing with his toys (but only one mitten). And he wore them today when he had his snack. It seems as if he would eventually get hot (which you could tell by the sweat curling all of his hair), take the hat off, and forget about it. So, I would take everything back to his room. Then, inevitably, he would find everything again. He then would come up to Jon or I trying his darnest to get everything on, with little success. So, we would help him, and it would start all over again. He even got mad at his dad when he didn't velcro the strap!

And that is only one of the weird things he started doing. We've also seen him (on several occasions) attempting to belly-bump the dog. And then I catch him and his dad "walking like a duck" - arms back, bent over, running around like goofballs. And then we have the "sumo walk", where Braxton spreads his legs far apart and stomps around the living room, grunting with every move. I've also seen him sneaking a kiss from the baby in his (my) baby photography book. I just love that no matter what is going on in one day, I always know that I am going to get at least one good laugh when I get home :).

K, for those of you that have already read this and thought, "boy, kids really ARE weird!", I can top it! Tonight, as I was putting dishes into the dishwasher, I looked over to see my son - drinking water with a spoon - out of the dog's dish! Wow!

How Times Flies!

2008-10-15T21:01:00.002-05:00

Both of these pictures were taken in October. The first, just a few days ago, the second, last year at this time. It is hard to believe that one year ago we were working with Braxton to teach him how to sit up! It still takes everything that you have to get him to sit now, but for a whole new set of reasons :).

Hey, Braxton, where's your bellybutton?

2008-09-28T18:22:00.002-05:00

Right Here!

Braxton has been busy learning all of his body parts. He mastered the ear a long time ago. Recently, we've added hands, toes, tongue, and Braxton's favorite, his BELLYBUTTON!